In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire? With wit and eloquence, Perel lets us in on the mystery of erotic intelligence.
- Culture is the secret force that connects us as human beings.
- “Delight” and “play” are essential to a fulfilling life.
- Kindness is the best religion.
Pair with Kerouac on kindness as a way of life.